There are many variations on the cuckolding theme and within the framework of the cuckolding fetish, but there seem to be a few misconceptions here and there about exactly what cuckolding entails.
I get a lot of calls from guys who tell me they want their wives to cuckold them and then go on to tell me that it’s their biggest fantasy to see her roughly gang banged by a bunch of black men while they watch. That scenario is in no way cuckolding.
While cuckolding generally involves humiliation, it is humiliation on the part of the husband for knowing he is not enough for his wife, rather than humiliation on the part of the wife as she is gang banged by a bunch of rough, uncaring men.
Cuckolding almost always involves some sort of humiliation on the part of the husband, whether it is explicit or implied. Sometimes the humiliation comes from the fact that the husband has a small penis, can’t keep an erection, or ejaculates too soon, rendering incapable of pleasing her sexually.
Sometimes the humiliation comes from the fact that the hot wife has a very high sex drive that no one man could keep up with, even if he is otherwise adequate. In this case, the wife takes on multiple lovers to satisfy her insatiable sexual appetite.
A big part of the humiliation of cuckolding also comes from the husband being responsible for purchasing the lingerie his wife wears while with other men, as well as, helping her get ready for his arrival.
The humiliation can also be very explicit, such as the husband being required to fluff the cuckold bull to get him ready for his wife. Oftentimes, the cuckold is expected to lap up the cream pie while he humps her leg and she tells him all about how good it was with her lover. It also not uncommon for the bull to have his way with the cuckold while he is lapping up that cum-filled pussy.
So there you have it. Cuckoldry does involve humiliation on the part of the male, either implied or overtly expressed.
Until next time~