
Fantasy Cuckold Phone Sex vs. Real Cuckolding 1-800-601-6975
It’s due time I did a blog about fantasy cuckold phone sex, vs. the real cuckold lifestyle. Real cuckolding is something that I believe not a lot of people know about, which is why we’re going to talk about it today. Fantasy cuckolding is very male centered, for the men having the fantasy, because of course it is. It’s your fantasy, so you want to be right there in on the action, that is what gets you off, right? Today I’m gonna learn you something about MY style of cuckolding, and probably why you’d be very disappointed in real life, if you were my cuckold. Hint: My cuckold lifestyle has nothing to do with your fantasies.
Fantasy Cuckold Phone Sex
Here is the disclaimer: In cuckold relationships in real life, it is the woman who calls the shots, asserts her boundaries, and is common in female led relationships. The woman is the one that sets what variables of her cuckold relationship will be included, and all consenting parties must comply or there’s no honey for you. I love to burst men’s bubbles and remind them that in addition to not knowing as much as they think they know about women’s bodies, you also don’t know jack diddly about cuckoldry, because everything you learned, you learned from porn. In real life cuckolding, there are several things that may or may not happen, so let’s go over the first one: No, you will not be able to watch, kneeling on the floor jerking off or behind her licking her pussy. You might not even be allowed in the same house with them when they are intimate. Take a moment and get a kleenex if you need to have a little cry about it.
Real Cuckolding Vs. Fantasy Cuckold Phone Sex
You need to be prepared for this, because what your partner views as cuckolding, may vary completely from what you jerk off to. The other thing is this: If your partner is not into cuckolding it’s just not going to happen – which is why you call us! If she is into cuckolding, you need to both establish boundaries. Now if you’re upset, and maybe wondering if real life “fantasy” cuckolding ever happens, yes of course it does! There’s so many different variables to cuckolding, that it can range from mild – cuckold girls night out, she comes home and sits on your face after a session or tells you about her stud – to extreme – cuckoldress takes over the house, moves her bull in, makes you pay for everything, turns you into a ballerina cuckold sissifies and emasculates you, turns you into a cuckold cocksucker and makes you suck cock. Yes, those things do happen, but the latter happens a lot less in real life, or you may never hear about it.
Hot Wife Stag Fantasies
Stag and vixen scenarios also happen, where the husband is dominant, the wife is submissive, and she sleeps with other men with or without the husband watching. But he always knows what’s going on. Hot wife is probably closer to my real life experience with cuckolding, and I’ll break that all down further along this blog. First let’s have a quick chat about the most famously popular form of cuckolding, and the most problematic.
BBC Cuckold Fantasies
I know… you guys love it, many of you snort it up like powdered sugar on a donut. Is there anything wrong with liking seeing white women fuck black men? Well not in and of itself. Here’s where it gets really gross, for me. When the use of certain terms and labels and words are used; when the black men in the fantasy are treated like animals or objects. That’s when it gets creepy level squick factor. And I am very much hip to the fact that many white men who call, have BBC extreme fantasies. And thank goodness they’re only fantasies. BBC cuckolding often crosses over into the wacky wild world of BBC obsessed sissies. Which is why I periodically have to do a sissy etiquette reminder of how not to be a raging dickhead. You can indulge in your fantasies, without using certain offensive words and symbols. Now if you are unable to get off to a BBC fantasy, without using those words and terminologies, you have a bigger issue. One that will require you to want to do the work and do something about it.
Can I Still Do My Fantasy?
Yes! We can play, we can get crazy with your cuckold fantasy, so long as you adhere to certain guidelines, when calling me! And since I’m big on humiliation, and a sadist, I have no problem turning you into a degradee cuckold husband who has no rights, and whose wife leaves him for an intelligent, handsome, black man, with a huge…… heart. You thought I was gonna say dick, didn’t you? Yeah, he has that too. I have no issue whatsoever spinning a Mean Mistress, Mean Master cuckolding scenario, if you’re into it. The rest we can discuss over the phone, and will not be mentioning here. And please remember: Asking for consent, and asking you to treat people with respect, is not kink shaming.
You Don’t Have To Be Into BBC Or A Sissy To Be Into Cuckolding
Your cuckold fantasy can be whatever you want, however you want, with whoever you want. It’s simply important for you to remember, that some things sound fantastic in fantasy, but are a nightmare in reality. Then there’s that whole deep kink contract scene. Ask me about that in session. *wink*
Mistress Brighton’s Cuckolding World
For anyone who doesn’t know, my cuckold history started just before college, and before I knew there was a name for it. I realize that I’m also extremely fortunate to have a guy that likes what I like. And who is bisexual and gets turned on sucking cock for me. White male, big dick, good job, bisexual, switch, doesn’t need to be around when I’m fucking other men, and the relationship is open on my end, and I call the shots. I do not have some astronomical number of men I’ve fucked, however he knows I like what I like (read the UK Cuckold). I’m also a size queen and he knew that when he met me. What neither of us did know is how much we had in common. So that’s what works for me, and him, and no you will not ever be joining us or meeting me. But you can call me!
YOUR Cuckold Phone Sex Reality
I hope my realistic approach to cuckolding doesn’t ruin your boner. Because regardless of your cuckold kink style, we can talk about it and roleplay it, and you can do that by calling me! Just dial 1-800-601-6975 and ask for Mistress Brighton. I do hope all of this made sense to you, when horny brain is on, things get a little crazy don’t they? You can also order phone sex audios from me, and I make custom audios! So until next time…
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Mistress Brighton
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Thanks for this Ms Brighton, some very important distinctions you make regarding the fantasy of cuckolding, and reality.
I never knew about your cuckolding experiences, and I’m delighted as I know many out there will be, to get to know a bit more about you!
See you around the Empire! ?
Great post and reminder of the differences between fantasies and reality (of course there had to be) ….cuckold as situations are as common and different as there are people who dream of, or live them! Thanks for a small window into your version!
It’s a very multifaceted fetish for sure!
Love your posts Mistress Brighton. I was also a cuckold before I even knew there was a name for it. My Lady usually took her pleasure with her boyfriends in another room and it was only very rarely that she allowed me the honour of being allowed to watch.
Her sex life was very much about her pleasure, not my fantasies, although some of my fantasies got fulfilled as a sort of side-effect of hers.
It is true that many men think that Female Led Relationships are some sort of porn fantasy for them. The reality is that an FLR is exactly what it is – Female Led. She makes the rules. She does as she pleases and he does as he’s told. Her rules and her desires are not guided by his needs but by hers.
Oh absolutely! And there are women who enjoy the more porny cuckolding style, nothing wrong with that, just as long as you remember what she says goes!